On so many days of my life, so little happens, and I have in many respects to find ways to "kill time'' in activities that have no great value, but at least they stop me getting bored or simply sitting in a chair with my eyes closed, quietly relaxing--times when Joan thinks I am asleep, but when I believe I am awake.
So let's take Friday March 22nd as a typical example. On Thursday night I went to bed at 11.15pm: up to urinate at 1.35am, 4.35am, and 7.18am. Back into bed for another hour. Up, say, 8.30am, coffee, make the bed, bathroom, shower, and then proceed to breakfast--almost always the same--bran flakes, some fruit, usually a sliced apple and blueberries, bread with margarine and Marmite, and a handful of (nominal aphasia cuts in, as so often)...I have to ask Joan...pistachios.
During breakfast, I go into the New York Times on my phone, finish Wordle, and start on Spelling Bee. I take my morning pills--one a blood thinner, one to control blood pressure, and a multivitamin (probably unnecessary, as we eat a good diet). Maybe more coffee, maybe some water.
So there we are. At, say, 9.15 am, and nothing to do until I have to set out to have my pacemaker checked at about 10.50am, when I will have to Metrorail to Friendship Heights and walk for eight minutes or so to the doctors' offices.
But Spelling Bee was unfinished, so I switch on my Mac, go into the NY Times Games section, and perhaps, after 20 minutes or so, I reached Genius level, my daily aim. I needed to use the 'Hints'--but that's not cheating. If I need to cheat, I go into Inges Anagram Generator, put in 2 of each letter, and usually (but not always) get a few words that get me up to Genius.
The next puzzles are the Waffles word puzzles, followed by KenKen, which can take me anything from 12 minutes to half-an-hour. (I do the 6x6 Hard version.) So exercising my brain is off to a good start.
Now it's time to go and get my pacemaker check. Down in the elevator to the 4th floor, thru the garage and into the Giant food store, out onto the plaza, down the two escalators to the platform, and along comes the train. Two stops to Friendship Heights, walk to the doctor's, two minutes wait, three minutes examination--all is well, you have AFIB, as you already know, and the battery will last six and a half more years: I wonder whether I will outlive the battery, or vice-versa.
I walk home from the doctor's office. When I get back into the apartment, I check my pedometer, and I see I have just passed my daily goal of 4 miles--a goal I am not too obsessed about, but I generally get there: and sometimes, in places where we do long walks, I far exceed the daily norm.
When I get back, I go into apt.1503, where my other computer lives, and go into the German paper Die Zeit. They have an equivalent of Wordle called Wortler, which uses 6 letters. I do it with my German dictionary at hand, and I have got it right several times. Then I finish watching a program streamed on PBS Passport about a Chinese American artist called Wong...very interesting. He died at 106. He was a serious artist, but he also worked in film studios on sketches for film sets, and as an artist at Disney doing the backgrounds for animations. He designed Christmas cards and simple decorations of pottery for tableware, and he made beautiful kites that flew like birds and butterflies.
Lunch--a typical repast--big sandwich with turkey breast, cheese, and chutney--topped off with an non-alcoholic beer.
And then what? I turned to writing this account of my day. So, having dealt with everything up to now (3.45pm) I shall have to wait until tomorrow to finish it...
No, I can pick it up again now, at about 6.00pm.
I have just got up from one of my 'shut-eye' periods--the times when Joan swears I am asleep and I say I wasn't--just brooding. When I got up, it was like a rusty old piece of machinery moving into action, and I stumbled and nearly fell...it happens. I should note--as we are tracking activity--that before I took my 'shut-eye I went into the Guardian Crosswords to look again at last Sunday's puzzle, which I hadn't finished. And, as is often the case, coming at it afresh, I was able to put in the last few words.
At 6.15pm, I asked the daily question (if we are eating at home)--"When should I start the salad?" And Joan's answer is "now."
Salad making is my task: same ingredients most nights: peppers, tomatoes, cucumber, carrots, shredded cabbage--red and white--Feta cheese, wontons, and Asian sesame dressing.
Eat, do the dishes--I am the washer and Joan the wiper. Walk down to get the mail, using the far elevator going and coming to add a little more to my mileage.
Next into 1503 to watch a Netflix series, ending at about 9.30 pm.
Into bed about ten o'clock, intending to read for the period before Joan announces that she is falling asleep, which happened quite shortly after we had started reading. I leave her with a good night kiss, and retreat to the living room, where I decide I will go into the Guardian and do the crossword, which I solve with minimal cheating. This lasts me to about 11 o'clock.
Teeth-cleaning--an evening ritual, which includes my electric tooth brush, ordinary toothbrush, pointy tooth brush, flossing, and the tricky flossing under the lower right bridge. Topping off with an antiseptic mouthwash.This ritual is probably excessive, but it is a long time since I needed anything done apart from the routine cleaning.
Bed at 11.15, and I was still awake at midnight....
(BTW...I have mentioned very little about Joan. This was a day in which was engaged in important Zoom sessions in the morning and in the afternoon she went to the hairdresser. On other days, we spend more time together.
And there is one activity that occurs every other day: the morning back exercises that I have been doing ever since the attack of sciatica immobilised me in London.)